Showing posts with label Mandy. Show all posts
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Thursday, July 8, 2010

All on a Saturday night

This weekend was Celina and Barry's Wedding. It was small, simple, and sincere. The sun came out so our rain boots didn't have to. It was complete with Pedicures, shopping, German food and balloons. Welcome to the World Mr. and Mrs. Nix!

Saturday Night, we had a bon fire out at the RV park Barrys family was staying at in Woodland, Washington. A gorgeous sunseted, chilly night. Then, as the boys set up the fireworks, an elderly woman shuffled over to the ledge and shouted "you cant do that. It scares my little dog." A few choice words were exchanged between the group and the woman. "Well," she concluded. "I already told on you to the park ranger and here she comes now." Sure enough the sound of a golf cart on gravel geared up in our ears.

"You can not do fireworks until tomorrow. You can not go off the property and do them, if you do them anywhere where I can see them I will kick you out of the park." So, the fireworks went away, and with much urging from the peace wanting mother, words were kept inside. Mandy and I just looked at each other. We rode in the just married car and got some good looks from passerby's and we watched some grown people dramatically act as though they were 13.

On the way home, Mandy and I shared every memory we had of our Grandma Ziebart. Then there was a bridge lift. Once the traffic started moving, one car remained still in the right lane as two people frantically squirmed around in their hot little convertible mustang. It looked like they were trying to put clothes back on. Hmmmm. Then, not 70 feet later, a man in the shoulder of the right hand side of the road was dancing ... Nude. I just looked at Mandy and said "What on earth is going on tonight?!" We agreed that the evening had been nothing short of a dream.

The next morning as I gave my aunt Jan the long version of the weekend, she said "are you sure that was real? Perhaps you dreamed it all."

Yes, that's it. I think I dreamed it all. There was no crabby lady saying we could not do fireworks. There were no adolescent teenagers. No couple in the convertible. No nude man dancing. Just a normal Saturday night.

Family

The Ziebart Family. This was the family we spent holidays with and always squirmed to leave early so not to be too late to Mom’s side of the family. (Mom’s side) The side of the family with the cousins we loved and the aunts we adored. The Ziebart family was loud and shocking and slightly uncomfortable. Harmony says it well in that she must prepare herself whenever a gathering comes about, and I wholeheartedly agree. It’s not that this family is bad, I love them all dearly, they are family. And the discussions are always ok, as long as you don’t get anyone started on politics, religion, sports, health or investments. Stick to Construction.

I love my Grandpa, afterall, he is the only Grandpa I have. Bryan and I were good friends, when we were little seeing that we went to pre-school together and all. Ben’s long hair mezmorized me, Uncle Norman scared me, Aunt Patty shushed me. We gathered at holidays … but that was it. Though we all mostly lived in the same city, we did not hang out. I don’t really know why.

So a few years ago Mandy got married and had me help with the gifts at her wedding, then I caught the boquet! I was enamored with her. Nick and Mandy moved back to the area a few years later and invited me to Portland, to their Bible Study. It was so out of my comfort zone, but out of lack of excuses and a deep desire for something new, I went. I started to get a small glimpse of their lives. School brought me here, and now I spend more time with them then pretty much anyone else.

Harmony asked me about a week ago if Mandy and I were friends. I laughed, sighed and responded in an email that yes indeed, Mandy, my Ziebart Cousin and I were friends. How mysterous our God is. This cousin that I have so many connections with, is now a deep part of my life. I am trusted with her kids and her kitchen. And I delight in being with her. Her devotion to God, her respect for her husband, her patience with neighbors, and her joy of being a mom - these things speak rivers to my soul. How thankful I am that the Lord closed doors on a job for me this summer. Mandy, if only you knew what joy it is to serve with you.

Me

Portland, Oregon, United States